Modesty has no place in CV writing

February 15th, 2010

For many of us, it’s difficult to write or talk about ourselves without some nagging, uncomfortable feelings. And we have been told since childhood that it’s not okay to brag. So when you really need to sell yourself on your CV, you experience all those negative feelings associated with talking confidently about your achievements.

So, how to overcome this major obstacle? Here are ten suggestions for writing proudly about
yourself without blushing:

1. Think about what makes you feel proud – If you have difficulty identifying your accomplishments or special strengths for a CV, think about what makes you proud in your work. Also, consider what gives you the greatest joy.

2. Use specific examples – Specific examples add credibility and shows that this is more than just boasting.

3. Use numbers wherever possible – Numbers show very specific how good you are. If you manage people 150 to 500 paints the picture very clear instead of a “large staff” compliment. If you are in finance, you know how important numbers are – so use it to your advantage.

4. Do not exaggerate or lie, ever – we all know the saying “If it sounds too good to be true”. Use that to measure yourself. If you have done extraordinary things it might be helpful to elaborate on it. If you are unsure whether the right message will be given, rather leave it for the interview stage.

5. Give relevant information – Most self-assessments include specific categories: teamwork, communication, problem-solving, and so on. Be sure that the examples you give match the category; otherwise, they lose power.

If you sincerely believe in your abilities you will never have a problem with telling it as it is. Most of the time people don’t feel comfortable about talking about their achievements because they don’t really believe in themselves. So get comfortable with yourself first, and be confident about your abilities. Once you have done this you will find that talking about your achievements are not the big issue that you thought.

How positive are you?

February 12th, 2010

Many will probably think – Oh No! Not another positive junkie.  But you know what? Only negative junkies have those thoughts.  The fact of this world is that you can either see all the good around you or you can concentrate on all the bad things that’s happening out there.  You know how you feel either way.

 

The sad truth is that no matter what you do, you will reap the rewards.  And if you consider that you only have life, it makes sense to enjoy it.  So for all who really want to feel better, try the following steps, it might just work.  And if you smile, the world smiles back at you.

 

Here are some more tips to help you with positive thinking.

 

1. Use the power of laughter. Life is not meant to be serious all the time. Learn how to enjoy yourself and have more fun. No matter how bad things are, there is always something that can make you laugh.

 

2. Make sure to ask plenty of questions. Asking questions does not mean you are dumb, it just means that you would like to know more about a certain subject. The more you learn to understand the way things are and the more knowledge you gain the better you will feel about yourself.

 

3. Remember to always be grateful for your many blessings.

It is much healthier to focus on all the things that you do have rather than what you don’t have. Do you have a roof over your head? Do you have food in your cupboards? These are things to be grateful for, as many people do not have them. Write down a list of all the things that you have to be grateful for and every time you start feeling negative or frustrated, read your list.

 

4. Before you go to sleep at night, say goodbye to all your worries. No matter what happened during the day that may have made you unhappy, throw it away so you can start fresh the next day.

 

5. Don’t be afraid to ask other people for help. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness. Many people are afraid to ask for any help because they think other people will think that means they cannot handle things on their own. You would be surprised at how much joy you can bring to somebody’s life by asking him or her for help. It helps build their self-esteem and confidence and once you have received their help, it will increase your level of joy as they have helped you to solve your problem.

 

Doing the simple things can make quite a difference in how you feel and build your confidence. When your confidence is high, it is less likely that you will have negative thoughts in your mind. When you are feeling confident, you have positive thoughts and with positive thoughts, you attract positive people and things into your life.

Who should be looking for work?

February 8th, 2010

It’s amazing that most people’s first response to my work is, Do you look for work for me as well? 

My answer to all is NO, you need to look for work yourself.  It seems that everybody wants work but not many are prepared to actually look for work.

Please consider for a moment that we all need to work for our money. Now I write professional CVs for a living.  Recruiters are paid by the companies they supply staff to.

If you seriously want somebody to find you work, maybe you need to understand that unless you pay somebody to do it, nobody will do this for free.

But beside all this, I fail to see how you can be serous about finding work when you are willing to leave this most important part of the process to somebody that doesn’t even know you.

What I am trying to say is that you are the only person that can look after your own future.  Please don’t expect others to do the work for you.  You might not like the outcome and end up doing something that you don’t really like.

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January 26th, 2010

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Instruksies vir die volmaakte lewe ingesluit

October 22nd, 2009

Neem hierdie pil vir sooibrand, daardie een vir kopseer, nog een vir hierdie kwaal, en voor jy dit weet is jy so vol gif gepomp, dis net ‘n kwessie van tyd voor jy ontlont. “Lees hierdie boek om gewig te verloor, neem hierdie kursus om so te voel.”  “Eet dit en voel so, eet dat en voel so.” Elke dag is ons blootgestel aan informasie oorlaai, tot so ‘n mate dat ons nie meer weet wie om te glo of wat om te doen nie. En elke dag word daar net meer informasie beskikbaar gestel, wat vir my een ding sê:  daar is nog steeds geen goeie antwoord op al die vrae nie.  Indien daar was, sou dit mos nie nodig wees om meer informasie beskikbaar te stel nie.

Die soeke na die instruksies vir ‘n volmaakte lewe het ‘n winsgewende bedryf geword.  Elke persoon is nou ‘n kenner en weet beter as jy.  En hoekom nie, meeste mense soek gedurig na die antwoorde.  En die groot probleem is dat jy nie in hierdie lewe ingekom het met ‘n “hoe om” instruksie boek in die hand nie.  Sou dit makliker gewees het as jy een gehad het?  Ek dink nie so nie, maar dit sou seker heelwat mense beter laat voel het.

Die groot probleem is dat die meeste van die informasie wat beskikbaar is, niks minder is as een persoon wat sy/haar mening op jou probeer afdwing nie.  Ongelukkig worstel daardie mense met dieselfde probleme waaroor hulle soveel te sê het. Gaan doen ‘n bietjie navorsing en kyk hoeveel informasie is beskikbaar.  Daar is boeke, kursusse, artikels, enigiets waaraan jy kan dink.  Elke persoon se antwoord is beter as die vorige een, en verseker die antwoord waarvoor jy gewag het.  Elke persoon het daardie een geheim wat die verskil gaan maak.  En raai wat – met al die informasie beskikbaar vandag, bly die soeke steeds dieselfde.  As die probleem opgelos word, gaan daar mos nie meer ‘n aanvraag wees nie.

Die antwoord – wees die BESTE JY wat jy kan wees.

Ek weet, jou eerste vraag gaan wees “makliker gesê as gedoen, hoe doen ek dit?” En dis juis die probleem, daar is niks wat jy moet doen nie, jy moet wees.  Wanneer ons probeer doen, beteken dit ons moet werk maak van die saak.  Maar wanneer jy is, verlang dit nie werk nie, dit is klaar daar, al wat verlang word is dat jy na jouself luister en die ware jy ‘n kans gee.

Ons is so bekommerd oor wat die ander mense te sê het, wat hulle van ons dink, dat ons vergeet om onsself ‘n kans te gee.  Onthou altyd, terwyl jy jouself bekommer oor wat ander mense te sê het, is daardie mense besig om presies dieselfde te doen.  So gaan ons deur die lewe en mors kosbare tyd op onbenullighede.

Wanneer laas het jy geluister?  Regtig geluister na jouself.  Die antwoorde is binne jou, wees net oop. Ons het dit al almal ondervind, daardie stemmetjie, daardie gevoel, daardie hare wat reis, daardie warm gevoel in jou maag.  Dis hoe maklik dit is.

Luister na wat ander mense sê, hoor dieper as die woorde.  Luister met jou hele wese, voel wat gesê word.  90% van die tyd is ons te besig om na onsself te luister, ons hoor nie wat ander te sê het nie. 

Wat meer kan ek sê, behalwe dat jy wonderlik is nes jy is, en glo my as jy ‘n kans het om plekke te ruil met ‘n ander, gaan jy tweekeer dink, want jy weet nie regtig wat daardie persoon se vrese en bekommernisse is nie.  En glo my, jou lewe is volmaak, gee dit net ‘n kans.

Hello world!

June 17th, 2009

Welcome to my world.  Please feel free to have your say about the recruitment process as it currently stands in South Africa.